Professional Speaking Monday. About creating your own off-season as a global professional speaker. Recorded in Bali on vacation with my family as I tend to make part of April my off-season. (Today posted on the Sunday as I will be out with kids all day tomorrow too. 🙂
Being a professional speaker is a rewarding job in so many ways. We get to spread our message and we get to see the world. We get an applause when we are done, and sometimes even a standing ovation. (I got two last week alone.) Most people do amazing work and never get a standing ovation in their life, or even an applause. Or even a heartfelt thank you.
Sometimes I think we take this great job perk of getting positive affirmation for granted.
We should not.
We should treasure it for the great gift it is.
A couple a days ago I gave a speech in India at the first ever Professional Speakers Summit. I got to speak about speaking to 150 people.
An hour after my speech a man came up to me and handed me a hand-written letter that he had written and that he wanted me to have.
The fact that it was hand-written and hand-delivered made the message so much stronger.
It made me very happy.
And it reminded me of why I do what I do. About why I am a professional speaker. And about the power of a well delivered speech.
As a speaker, never forget the power to touch people’s life that comes with this profession.
And aim to do just that every time you deliver a speech.
Here is the letter:
“We haven’t spoken, and we haven’t met but I already feel CONNECTED with you. How beautiful is that? That is the power of thought that resonate. We have these resonating moments when we read an intense book or an important movie. I had that resonating moment when listening/watching to you speak today. On the stage I saw a humble and energetic human being sincerely seeding thoughts of value and goodness to his audience. I saw an open heart in sync with the mind, sharing life impeccably with the universe.
That you for the time and mind you shared with us Fredrik it means a lot. As a fellow human being and a writer striving to make this world more beautiful and interesting and impactful I felt the need to reach out and let you know that you are an amazing soul on an inspiring journey. This moment of resonance matters. This is important. This is beautiful. This is creativity.
Glad it happened, and happy to share!
With smiles, ”
I think the best way to learn is to learn from the mistakes of others so today’s post is about how I fucked up and how you can learn from that.
A while back I booked a airline ticket to Ukraine for a speech I was doing for the event organiser KA Group, a very professional events and conference organiser.
I was scheduled to speak between 4 pm and 5,30 so I booked a flight leaving 9 pm, but I was informed by the organisers that they would appreciate if I could also stay around for the VIP dinner that started at 7 pm. (I of course said yes, speakers being part of events like VIP dinners means a lot for an organiser and as a speaker we should do our best to be part of them.)
But attending the VIP dinner meant I had to change my flight which would leave later (11 pm) and that meant changing airlines from Turkish Airlines to Qatar Airways.
And here is where the screw up happened: I informed the client of my new DEPARTURE time, but I did not inform them about the new ARRIVAL time that changing airlines had triggered. (At the time I re-booked my flight I did not know that the client had planned to pick me up personally at the airport and when I was informed by it I assumed they understood that me changing airline meant I would fly in with Qatar Airways.
But the client assumed I would be flying in on Turkish Airlines and out on Qatar. That meant that when the Turkish Airlines flight landed in Kiev and I was not on the flight the client got worried. And when they could not find me on the passenger lists for the flight, or reach me on my phone (I was on the plane to Doha) they had no way of knowing where I was or if I was on my way to Kiev.
Finally they where able to reach my wife (!) – yes, the client is very creative in finding out information and they got informed that I was on the plane to Kiev – just via Doha and not via Istanbul…
A few hours later I landed and all was good.
But for a while the client did not know where I was, and that was wrong.
My inability to give full and clear information about my travel created unneeded stress for the client.
Learn from me and rather communicate too much than too little.