Used right the word “resolution” is powerful.
But I think most people use it wrong.
The word “resolution” means: “a firm decision to do or not to do something.”
But many people seem to look at a a New Year Resolution more like a dream, almost a wish, something we hope will happen.
“I am going to loose 10 kg (I hope…)”
“I am going to (try to quite smoking, (again)…”
And so on.
But a resolution is not a vision to hope for – it’s a firm decision to do something.
And some also seem to think that a resolution limits our options because it somehow would hinder us from changing our mind in the future as some new opportunities might arise, or the world might change.
But to not take a decision, to always be standing in a crossroads keeping our “options open”, and being “flexible” means that we never start to walk down any path.
And that means we never get anywhere.
And to be clear, making a firm decision does NOT mean that you can not re-evaluate your decision later on. To me it just means that you make a decision that you really, strongly believe in.
There comes a time when we need to make a firm decision, choose a road and walk down it.
And when we do we usually feel much better.
You see the word “resolution comes from the Latin “resolvere” which means to “loosen” and to “release”.
If your New Year Resolution doesn’t make you feel a sense of “release”, is not making you excited, inspired and feel like a stone has been lifted from your shoulders then I think it is safe to say that your resolution was the wrong one.
My resolution as a professional speaker in 2017 is to dive deep into the world of online marketing.
I have made a firm decision to study it, learn it, understand – and, yes: master it.
Not because I feel that it is “trending”.
Not because everyone else seems to be doing it already.
Not even because I think that I need it for my business (If you follow this blog you know that I believe that as a speaker the only marketing you need is to make such great speech that at least two people come up to you after the speech and ask to book you for their conference…)
And not because it is a topic I am speaking on or thinking of speaking in (it is not)
No, but because I fell in love with Internet Marketing more than 20 years ago.
Internet Marketing was the first thing I was an expert on, the first thing I really knew as a professional – and the first thing I spoke on.
I wrote my first book – called “Internet and Marketing” way back in 1995 (Time flies!!) and because almost no-one in 1995 knew anything about the Internet I became, at the age of 27-years, an “expert”, which led to invitations to speak at conferences. And so my career as a professional speaker was born.
Over the years I got interested in other things and my love and interest for online marketing subsided, for some reason.
This year I have decided to revive that old love of mine.
And in deciding to do so I feel inspired, excited and full of energy.
Will it make me better as a speaker? I doubt it.
Will it help my speaking business? Probably.
But I am doing it because I want to do something outside my focus on my speaking and the topics I speak on that would add some inspiration to my day.
I guess you can say I have gone back to one of my old hobbies. 😉
When I see the new year fireworks I see a symbol of the power of firm decisions: Someone made a firm decision to light the fuse of that small fire-rocket and the result is a beautiful, sparkling artwork in the sky.
What is your firm decision that you have taken for this year that will make you better as a speaker, better as a business person, better as a person – or just generally something that will inspire you more each day?
What fireworks are you setting of inside your mind this year?